Friday, August 26, 2016

Bits 'N Pieces (of the Hana Kroj)

Sarah (Middlebrook) Armor, Ed Middlebrook and Katy (Middlebrook) Frazier
Czech costumes are formed by many pieces. These pieces can sometimes be confusing and difficult to wear properly. As before, I want to add a disclaimer that I am no expert (not at all). I welcome comments and suggestions. I welcome submissions on Czech costumes or related items.

Several years ago I decided to make a kroj (Czech costume) representing the Hana region. My goal was to make a costume as authentic as possible. The finished product took two years to complete.

The costume includes:

1. TIGHTS. White opaque tights are my recommendation. Panty hose just look too contemporary.

2. SHOES. My daughters, Sarah and Katy, wear black or brown shoes with this costume. I hope someday to make authentic decorated black shoes with embroidery stitches and red ribbon. But for now, plain black shoes would be my suggestion.Take a tip from us, go ahead and put your shoes on before you put your costume on.

3. UNDERSHIRT. As I mentioned in previous posts, I recommend a plain white Under Armor shirt to keep you cool and protect your blouse from perspiration.

4. PETTICOATS. The petticoats are very important. They should be stiffly starched enough to stand on their own. For additional fullness, sometimes the girls will wear a full can-can type petticoat that are available at Czech Costume Creations at the link on the right side of this blog. The can-can type petticoat is not authentic but under the white cotton petticoats they are not seen but provide for a very full skirt.

5. YELLOW SKIRT. The yellow skirt is worn over the very full petticoats and the ties tucked in to the skirt.

6. EMBROIDERED APRON. Costumes from the Hana region typically have white aprons/over skirts. The apron I made is white cotton with yellow embroidery (all done by hand!).


7. HANDKERCHIEF -  A handkerchief is pinned at the waist. I hand embroidered and hand edged this handkerchief several years ago.


8. VEST. Put the vest on but wait until after the belt is on to hook it.
Hana Vest

9. BELT. The vests for the Hana costume are traditionally short. Since my daughters, Katy and Sarah, are so tall, a lot of the white blouse shows so we made the belt long enough to wrap around the waist twice with a big bow in the front. The ends of the belt should hang very long with the ends even. When we tie the bow, great care is taken to get the ends at exactly the same length.

10. COLLAR. The most distinctive part of the Hana kroj is a very stiff collar. This collar was created with 13 yards of lace and made detachable for convenience. I use liquid starch to made the collar stiff. The collar should stand up in the back. I get this collar to stand up by turning it upside down on an empty milk jug and spray it with full-strength liquid starch until it is soaked. When it dries, it is very stiff. (We store the collar in a hat box.) The collar is attached with a hook and tied with a red ribbon bow.

11. HAT. We have two hats for this costume. A dear friend brought us a hat made out of a large scarf (pictured above) from the Czech Republic. Sorry, I cannot tell you how to fold the scarf into a hat. If anyone has the directions, please let me know. The second hat is one I made out of a stove top hat. I had never seen one of these hat in person when I started making Sarah's but as you can tell by the side-by-side picture, I got pretty close. This hat is traditionally worn by brides.

Sarah (Middlebrook) Armor


Sharon (Middlebrook) Mena on the left next to a photo of an authentic Hana hat.

12. ACCESSORIES. A friend brought us the tall basket (pictured below) (I guess this is for wine but I'm not sure) and Bohemian garnets.
My daughters, Sarah (Middlebrook) Armor and Katy (Middlebrook) Frazier.

Monday, May 2, 2016

Personal Update

Hello all or "Howdy" as we say in College Station, Texas. I have not posted in a while so I thought I would give you a little update. As you may have noticed from a previous post, I have moved from West, Texas, to College Station, Texas. I've been very blessed, both personally and professionally. I married Randy Mena in November 2013 and he owns a local business. Check out our new website: menaplumbing.com.

I have a new job in the Office of the Vice President for Student Affairs as an Administrative Administrative. I have settled in nicely and have kept myself very busy. I've joined the American Business Women's Association and have thoroughly enjoyed getting to know the other members. I have also joined the Texas Educational Support Staff Association and look forward to attending their Summer Work Conference next month.

And in answer to your question, yes I still work on Czech costumes. Not as much since I have also been finishing up coursework for an Associates Degree from Hill College. But lately I have been working on the collar/scarf for my daughter's Kyjov costume. Currently the costume is on display at the Texas Capitol Visitor's Center as part of the PolkaWorks Texas Czechs exhibit. Trust me, it will not be finished any time soon but I will post pictures from time to time to show the progress.
Thanks for listening and now I have a request for you. If you have a Czech costume, send me a photo and a little about YOUR costume(s) to czechcostumes@gmail.com. I am sure others would be interested in seeing costumes from different regions. AND if you made your costume, share some tips for others. Sharon

Wednesday, November 18, 2015

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Saturday, September 27, 2014

It's 5:00 Somewhere ~ Czech Style

I work in the Offices of the Dean of Student Life at Texas A&M University. Our department has started a series of cultural sharing events this year. The series was announced last month so staff could share a little about their heritage with co-workers. I know what you are thinking...wait a minute...Sharon's not Czech. True, but I don't let that stop me from sharing what I know-and have come to love-about all things Czech. (New readers may not realize - but since my late husband was Czech, my children and grandchildren are Czech. With their Dad and paternal grandparents gone, I want to make sure they know of their heritage so I continue to celebrate and share with others.)

So, with a colleague, Sarah Jaks, we put together an informal event for our co-workers "It's 5:00 Somewhere ~ Czech Style". At 10:00 a.m. (5:00 in the Czech Republic) staff joined us for: lively music, kolaches, costumes, dolls, garnets, crystal, porcelain, eggs, Taroky, textiles, language and informational PowerPoint - all Czech.

Working at a major University has been a wonderful enriching experience, both professionally and personally. I enjoy learning more about the diverse populations I interact with and look forward to this series to experience other cultures and heritages. Who knows, maybe I'll do another presentation on my heritage: Irish, Scottish or English.
Sharon














Tuesday, May 7, 2013

West Must Be Doing Something Right...


Last night I went with my sister, Becky, and her family to see their house one last time before it is bulldozed. I hadn't seen the house since the night of the fertilizer plant explosion, April 17, 2013. As we carefully walked through the debris that was once their happy home it was hard to keep our emotions in check, so we didn't. As I looked at the couch where little niece, Ally, sat, I could do nothing but thank God that she survived...without a scratch. The couch was covered with glass, bits of ceiling, sheet rock and insulation...but little Ally is ok. After shedding a few tears, hugs and smiles we took a few pictures, gave it the official "clap" (applause) for keeping the family safe, said good bye...and drove away.

Before going home we drove through a nearby neighborhood and saw a good friend. This dear friend (a teacher at West Elementary) visited with us for a bit. We did what everyone in West, Texas,


is doing now when we see each...thank God for all the survivors. Then she told us that the first day back at school the faculty and staff let the children of West express their emotions...drawing, writing, talking...whatever they need to do. The teachers were amazed. Most of the students looked past the explosion. Past the blast. Past the loss and instead focused on the blessings this town is witnessing. So very many of the dear children of West are focusing their attention on "God bless West" and the love, support and generosity surrounding this dear little town so many of us call home.

I have to think that we must be doing something right as a town when our children can see God's blessings in the midst of this tragedy.

Out of the mouths of babes...God blesses West.

Thursday, March 28, 2013

Bridal Kroj from Hluk



Thanks to everyone for your patience as I have not posted in quite a while now. This post is part of a series I hope to start on the varied costumes from the Czech Republic. Anyone wishing to have their costume(s) featured in this series can send photos and description to me at czechcostumes@gmail.com.

I want to extend many thanks to Mildred and Bill Dokupil of West, Texas, for providing the photo and description of her spectacular authentic Czech costume (kroj).

Mildred is wearing a traditional bridal kroj from the village of Hluk near the town of Uherske Brod, located near the Moravian-Slovak border area. This kroj is a stunning example of a mid-20th century costume. The collar is called an objek and is made of pleated Czech lace and embroidered ribbon. The accordion pleated sleeves (rukavec) are trimmed in hand embroidered lace (kanicky) which have been heavily starched. The blouse (kosila) has embroidered panels on the front and sleeves. The vest (kordula) is made of purple velvet, trimmed in hand painted ribbon (masla) and metallic lace. The back has three orange yarn puffs that indicate what village the kroj originates from. The front skirt (fertusek) is of burgundy brocade with floral prints edged in pleated Czech lace. The back skirt (sorec) is made of white accordion pleated cotton and is highlighted at the waist with brocade ribbon and metallic lace. The white skirt is worn by the bride and black by the bridesmaids. The off-white panel at the back (struple) has hand embroidered puffed pink roses, greenery and adorned gold beads and sequins. The kroj is complemented by a floral ribbon (masla) tied at the front waist.

The elaborate bridal cap (cepeni) is handmade with puffed Czech ribbons, flowers, pearl beads, gold and silver beads, crystals, silver sprays and miniature mirrors. The back is accented with Czech embroidered bows and ribbons.

Mildred acquired parts her kroj in March 1984 with the help of Ludmila Vaculikova and her family. During the Communist regime it was very difficult to get parcels in the mail. Slowly it came piece by piece. The bridal cap was the last part of her kroj and it was hand carried by Karol Vaculik, son of Pani Vaculikova, who came to West for a visit. Mildred wishes to thank Babicka Vaculik for all her work and getting this beautiful Czech kroj.

Mildred and her husband, Bill, first visited Czechoslovakia in 1978. They found Bill's relatives in Halenkov where his great grandfather is buried. After a return trip to his home land his great-grandfather became ill and died. Mildred found her grandmother’s family in Orechov. They have been back eight times and still visit the Dokupil and Hejl families.

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Random Acts of Kindness Day December 17, 2012

I would like to ask my friends and followers to designate and keep this December 17 as Random Acts of Kindness Day. On December 17, make a difference in someone’s life. Even if only to bring a smile to their face. Show love, compassion and Christian charity with a simple RAK and expect nothing in return. Believe me; your act will be paid forward to others. And what better time than the Christmas season? Why do I ask this?

On December 17, 2008, my life and the lives of my children were forever changed. As I was leaving the house to go Christmas shopping, I received a call. My high-school sweetheart and husband of 28 years (at that time) was very ill. In the hours that followed we learned he had Stage 4 colon cancer and the doctors gave him mere months. Those who knew Ed, saw an upstanding Christian man who would give you the shirt off his back if only to help someone. Ed went Home on October 6, 2010. I plan to honor his memory with RAK day.

If I had the financial means, I would love to make a charitable donation in Ed’s honor somewhere but that is not possible. I could put beautiful flowers on Ed’s grave, but that would not make a difference to anyone except give me a measure of peace. So, I’m asking anyone who reads this post to please SHARE this post, however you see fit. Help me get the word out via Facebook, Twitter, email, etc.

On December 17, make a difference to someone and expect nothing in return. On that day, simply post: December 17, 2012 RAK day. #BeTheChange #EdRIP #payitforward

Edward Ray Middlebrook – September 20, 1961-October 6, 2010

Monday, April 30, 2012

Bits 'N Pieces (of the Kyjov kroj)


I thought about calling this post FAQ (frequently asked questions) but I think I will start a series (very small series) of "Bits 'N Pieces" of Czech costumes (kroje). And I will add in a disclaimer here...I'm no expert and welcome comments and others to send me descriptions of their authentic costumes. With that said, here are the bits and pieces of the Kyjov kroj. It gets its name from the region it represents in the Czech Republic. For this purpose, I will use the costume I made. I will number the pieces and steps in the order that they are put on. In 2006, my daughter, Sarah, was named Miss Czech Slovak USA Queen at the national pageant in Wilber, Nebraska. The beautiful costume she wore was loaned to us by a member of her sponsor, McLennan-Hill Czech Heritage Society. The wonderfully preserved antique was absolutely stunning in every detail. Please see a photo of Sarah wearing this costume at the end of this post. We will be forever grateful to the late Henrietta Cervenka for entrusting this masterpiece to us for over a year during her reign.

Sometime during that year, I realized that we would have to return the costume at the end of her reign and Sarah would not have an authentic costume. We had really come to appreciate the splendid work on such a costume and I wanted to see if I could reproduce it. The first piece I made was the skirt. I did not know you could buy the red fabric for the skirt with the embroidery from the Czech Republic so I just made it by hand. Long story short, I took one piece at a time, meticulously, drawing out the pattern from the antique costume and reproduced it on the new costume. For complete details on the making of this costume, see the posts (from 2008) of this blog. You will have to go back several pages. The first photo on the blog is Sarah wearing the reproduction at Westfest several years ago.

1. TIGHTS. No mystery here, the costume simply looks better when worn with opaque tights. Panty hose looks too contemporary and when the costume is worn without tights it just looks unfinished.


2. BLOOMERS. I'll be honest here. This is for practical purposes only. I seriously doubt "bloomers" were worn in days of old but I feel they are needed. For those who don't know...bloomers are decorative "panties" (for lack of a better word) that are meant to give the wearer a little coverage (this is really needed during dancing) because when worn properly, with very starched petticoats, the skirt appears very short. The decorative bloomers are worn over the tights. The bloomers we have with this costume are red with ruffles. (Yes, ladies, just like the kind that we bought for our little girls when they were little.) We buy our "bloomers" from Maggie Grmela of Czech Costume Creations. (I have a link to her website along the right side of this blog.)

3. BOOTS. We have black boots for this costume. I would suggest simple black boots. No buckles or even heels (but this is up to the wearer). The boots we have were purchased online many years ago from Chadwick’s of Boston. I couldn't tell you if they still carry this style. They don't have heels or buckles and can be comfortably worn all day. Okay, honesty here and just my personal preference, but I would really recommend simple boots to carry out the authenticity. But, that is just my personal preference. And why are the boots listed as number 3 in the steps? Ah, practical purposes again. A little personal aside here...I can't tell you how many times, while helping my daughters put on this kroj, we forgot the boots until the end and (as anyone who has worn this kroj knows) once you get this costume on (if worn properly) you will not see your feet. And certainly struggle to get your boots on. SO, (getting personal again) I had to put the boots on the girls. Just trust me on this one.

4. UNDERSHIRT. Again, I can't tell you if this was done in days of old but trust me on this, it is vital. This costume can get very hot because of all of the layers. Whether you have an authentic blouse or a new one, you have a lot invested in it and will naturally want to protect it. Wearing a plain t-shirt will both keep you cooler and protect your blouse from perspiration. My recommendation would be a plain white Under Armor (brand name) shirt. The Under Armor shirt is designed to keep you much cooler in hot weather. And (we learned this the hard way) don’t wear a t-shirt with a design because when you sweat the design can bleed on to your blouse.

5. BLOUSE AND VEST. We store the vest on the blouse. Why? Because when the sleeves are worn properly they are very full and the vest has to be put over the sleeves very carefully as to not ruin the embroidery. We use little pouches of netting in the sleeves that can be taken out for cleaning. The blouse can be very heavy because of the full sleeves so it is best to have someone to help you put it on. Button the blouse but not the vest at this point.

6. PETTICOATS. The petticoats are much more important than you may realize. The petticoats form the “structure” of the costume. Petticoats should be so heavily starched that they can stand on their own. I use liquid starch sprayed on full strength. Maggie Grmela, of Czech Costume Creations, recommends boiling the starch but I have never used that method. When preparing the petticoats, I spray on the full-strength liquid starch until they are wet. I hang the petticoats up (all spread out) to dry. When you take them down they will be hard/stiff. I then iron them using regular spray starch. The petticoats will be hard and stiff when you put them on but the weight of the skirt will bring them down a little and normal wear will cause them to come down even more. The skirt should be very full and will sway (like a bell) when you walk. The costume I made for Sarah has two petticoats with ties that wrap around the waist. We put the first one on the front and then the second on the back. The ties/wraps will need to be tied as tightly as you can stand it because there are several more layers to add. If the ties are not tied tight enough, by the time you get to the belt you may not have much of a waist. I suggest tying the ends in a bow, not a knot. Why you ask? Because…by the end of the day the knots will be very hard to untie. Again, we learned this the hard way. My personal opinion is that most people do not pay close enough attention to the petticoats and the finished appearance suffers. If you have ever seen this costume worn properly, the full skirt and puffed sleeves are the first things you will notice.

7. RED SKIRT. The red skirt is worn over the petticoats and tie the ends as tight as you can stand it because you still have the apron and belt to add. Tie the ties in a bow and tuck the loops and ends over the top of the skirt and under the waist band.

8. APRON. The apron should be worn in front over the red skirt and should be the same length as the skirt; no shorter and no longer. The ties should be tied in a bow with the loops and ends tucked over the top of the skirt and under the waist band. The ties for the petticoats, skirt and apron should not show. At this point, you will want to button the vest.

9. BELT. The belt for Sarah’s costume is made of wide Czech ribbon. It has very stiff waist band stiffener sewn to the back to keep it looking nice when worn. If you don’t have the stiffener, the belt will get all folded and crinkled while wearing. The belt is important because after all of those layers you will need it to “give you a waist.” We tie the belt very tightly with a pretty bow (big loops) and the ends should be even. Just a tip we have learned…we keep a safety pin on the end of the belt because sometimes one end is longer than the other. And after getting the perfect bow, you may not want to untie it. Simply pin up the longer end to the underside, making the ends even. Voila!

10. SCARF. I am in the process of making the scarf for the neck but I want to include it for your information. The scarf is worn on the neck and pinned in front. We use an antique Bohemian garnet brooch. I would recommend using safety pins to secure the scarf in place. When worn at festivals, parades, etc. sometimes the scarf gets blown around. You do not want your scarf to blow against your face or you will get lipstick and make-up on it. Also, you will want your costume to always look its best and will want your scarf pinned in place.

11. WREATH. We finish the costume off with a wreath in the hair of multi-color flowers and ribbon streamers. You can also wear a hat. Traditionally, the wreath indicates a single woman and a hat is for married women.

12. ACCESSORIES. We have Bohemian garnet earrings and rings to wear with Sarah’s Kyjov kroj. We bought them on eBay.


I have been asked why do women put their hands on their waist when wearing this kind of costume (and others). Simple answer, there is really nothing else to do. The sleeves are so full that it just seems natural to put your hands on your waist.

Please see earlier post (from several years ago) if you are interested in making this costume.

The photo to the left is the antique costume that inspired the reproduction I made. I got pretty close, I think. On the reproduction, I signed and dated each piece I made and just for good measure I added yellow roses (honoring our home state of Texas) on the back.

I hope this information has been useful.

Sunday, April 29, 2012

It's More Than Just a Crown...

Yesterday, Saturday, April 28, 2012, the Czech Heritage Society of Texas crowned the new state queen. The pageant included all the pageantry any girl would want. Music. Master of Ceremonies. Lots of photo ops. Grand entrance. Czech crystal and many gifts for the winners. Applause. Beautifully embroidered sash. And a crown that would make any little girl's eyes twinkle.
But, by far, the best thing was to see the families together. Three (or possibly more) generations together. You see, leading up to the pageant, the young girls learn from parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles about Czech customs, traditions, recipes, kroje and language. THAT is what the Czech Slovak Queen pageants are all about. Not the fanfare that surrounds crowning the new queen but the younger generation learning all about their heritage. Some families live their Czech culture every day, others are more removed from it. In all cases, the youth will learn how their ancestors sacrificed, struggled and then celebrated in the new land we now call home.
At the Miss Texas Czech Slovak Queen Pageant yesterday, the contestants entered under a traditional canopy. They competed in four categories: personal interview, on-stage interview, kroj modeling and talent. Master of Ceremonies, Joe Janecka, introduced the panel of judges: Kristin Blair (former Miss Texas); Victor Havel and Angela Young (former Miss Czech Slovak USA). Caitlin Orsak of LaVaca County was named the 2012 Miss Texas Czech-Slovak Queen and will compete in Wilber, Nebraska. Good luck Caitlin!
The Pageant Committee spends weeks preparing for the day. Collecting prizes for the contestants. Decorations. And much more. Many thanks to committee members: Kathy Podsednik, Marianne Beran, Lee Colwell, Janis Hrncir, Helen Mikus, Evelyn Skopik and Jana Vaculik. This year the McLennan-Hill Chapter (our local chapter) hosted the event at the Knights of Columbus Hall in West, Texas. The day included a delicious meal, silent auction, traveling library, state meeting, sales booth of Czech costume designer Maggie Grmela and entertainment. The day ended with the Queen's Ball with music by the Czechaholics.

Each contestant had set up their own personal display. Some of the items included in the displays were: pictures in their kroj, trophies, Czech dolls, family heirlooms/photos and genealogy. THIS is what the day is all about. When my daughter got interested in the Czech Queen pageant, she began asking questions. She knew she was Czech but "tell me more." She (and all of these girls) learn their family Czech sir names, when and how their ancestors immigrated to America, what they wore (everyday and at special occasions), recipes, music and how they survived.

"May the love of one's heritage never fade, dim, nor die; for the future of tomorrow depends on how much you are willing to do for your past, today."...Sarah Middlebrook (2006 Miss Czech-Slovak USA Queen)

More photos from the 2012 Miss Texas Czech-Slovak Queen pageant are available at: www.facebook.com/czechcostumes. For more information on the Miss Czech-Slovak Queen Pageant, log on to: http://www.missczechslovakus.com/

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Which Kroj Should I Wear? Vote on Facebook

The Miss Texas Czech Slovak Queen will be selected this weekend in my hometown, West, Texas. I have never worn one of my kroj creations but am thinking I may. I need your help, please vote on the costume you think I should wear. These are photos of my daughter, Sarah, in the kroje. To vote, log on to www.facebook.com/czechcostumes or click on the Facebook icon on the right before the end of the day Friday,April 27, 2012. Thanks!

Friday, March 23, 2012

Miss Texas Czech Queen to be honored with Queen's Ball


The new Miss Texas Czech Queen will be crowned on Saturday, April 28, 2012 in West, Texas. Many thanks to our reigning Queen, Miss Amy Holecek of West, Texas. What a wonderful Queen she has been! Her Little Czech Sister was Kynlie Foit.

The Czech Heritage Society of Texas is making final plans now for the pageant that will be held at the KC Hall in West. The pageant is held annually at the club's state meeting and is open to the public. Opening ceremonies will be at 9:30 a.m. On-state interviews will be at 10 a.m. and kroj modeling will follow at 11:30.

After a barbecue lunch, the CHS will hold their business meeting. The crowning of the new Queen will be at 3:30 p.m. If you plan to attend, the CHS asks that you RSVP to 254-863-5665 so that they can get an accurate meal count.

New this year, will be a QUEEN'S BALL sponsored by the McLennan-Hill chapter of the CHS. The dance is open to the public and will also be held at the KC Hall from 6-10 p.m. The cost is $8 per person. Music will be provided by THE CZECHAHOLICS.

Guests are invited to wear their Czech kroj. But if you don't have a Czech costume, the dress is casual. For more information, call 254-863-5665.

I hope you can make plans to attend. I will be sure to be there and who knows, I may even wear one of the Czech costumes I made!!! What do you think, should I?

Thursday, March 22, 2012

Antique Costume



You may recognize this costume from a previous post (May 2011). It was given to me by a reader of this blog. (Many thanks!!) It is quite old and the person who gave it to me said it has been in her family forever. The costume appears to be Bohemian, possibly from an urban setting and would have been worn by a mature woman.

I cleaned the blouse with a gentle detergent, Biz and Shout. I put a color catcher in the water just in case the black thread along the neckline started to bleed. The lace appears to be handmade, and it is beautiful. I took the vest and skirt to the cleaners. There is a white underskirt that is heavily pleated. I have not cleaned it yet; not sure how without ruining the pleats.

I still have much to do but I thought you might want to see what it looks like all put together. I will post more pictures as I make progress.

Many thanks to the fans of my Facebook Czech Costumes page for their expertise. Click the Facebook icon to the right of this page and you can follow the comments and meet others interested in Czech costumes.

Thursday, January 19, 2012

THE Dress - Conclusion














Well, as you might have guessed by now. We finished THE dress. The bride and groom were radiant and I was beaming with pride. As the doors of the church sanctuary opened, I turned to look at Kevin. The look on his face was priceless. As Sarah, escorted by her brother Eddie, started down the aisle I could not help but think how proud her father would be. But then I remembered I had a part to do. As Eddie and Sarah stopped beside my pew, Sarah took my arm as Eddie stepped up to the pulpit. Eddie, a licensed Minister since 2005, had 3 years earlier officiated at Katy's wedding and now readied himself to perform the ceremony for Sarah and Kevin.

Eddie escorted Sarah in to the sanctuary to non-traditional music for a bride's entrance. Sarah and her Dad had a favorite song that they often listened to together. "When We Say Nothing at All" by Allison Krause. It is a beautiful song and just another special way she could have her Dad with her.

Kevin stepped down the steps to meet Sarah and I and waited until Eddie asked “who gives this bride.” The week before, I pondered how I could answer that question. I know if Ed were with us, he would be giving Sarah away. He would be so proud of her choice in Kevin. He would have loved to be here and say “her mother and I do.” So, after giving it much thought, my only response could be, “for her father and I, I do.”

Sarah took Kevin's arm and I sat down. They stepped up the steps to where Eddie was waiting. The ceremony was lovely. A friend of Kevin, Mark Marksteller, delivered a special message to the bride and groom. Words of wisdom for them to live by. It was perfect. My Dad, Joe Hill, performed a solo as he had done in every family wedding since 1977. A very special moment for our family. Also, performing a solo was Sarah's 9-year-old cousin, Audrey Holloman. She did a beautiful job and we are so proud of her.

Something old: her great-grandmother's handkerchief tucked in her bouquet. Something new: jewelry and a charm that Sarah's sister-in-law, Amanda, made her with a photo of her Dad. Something borrowed: veil from Sarah's sister, Katy, and I loaned her a sapphire ring that every bride in the family has worn for more than 30 years. Something blue: a very special heart inside her dress with her Dad's photo.

And a new one, something unforgettable: THE dress.


Wedding photos by Freeze Frame Time Photography.